#HappyPolydays:

A Group of polyamourous people raising awareness in the month of december

November 30th, 2020

#HappyPolydays:

#HappyPolydays: With this Hashtag a group of polyamorous people are leveling up raising awareness! Those 31 Instagram accounts got together!

One day, we were feeling alone in this world, the next day there was Social Media.

Can you believe it? When we were hiding for so many years, we actually believed we are the only throuple on earth! We believed that nobody could be as crazy as us living like this…  and then…  we realized we have to go public to make people understand, that it’s ok to live in the way we do. We wanted to save our son from prejudices. Going online was so scary and still, we wanted to go on with the best example for our son: Always be true to yourself and fight for what is right! Our polyamorous love and polyamorous family is right. We were glad to find a big community on Instagram that helped us feel normal.

 

Authors:

Fabian, Nicole and Chris from Real Polylife

Raising polyamory awareness in December

We are happy to announce that a part of the polyamorous community invited us to the polyamorous holiday December calendar. The idea was to have a calendar around the holidays but to also include all kinds of holiday spirits (regardless if they are religious or not). Polyamorous people can be religious and they can be not. Finally, we chose to get away from the religious 24 days and chose 31 days to go with. 

The 31 participants and their days Raising polyamory awareness in December

We are happy to announce that a part of the polyamorous community invited us to the polyamorous holiday December calendar. The idea was to have a calendar around the holidays but to also include all kinds of holiday spirits (regardless if they are religious or not). Polyamorous people can be religious and they can be not. Finally, we chose to get away from the religious 24 days and chose 31 days to go. 

December 1st

@thegrowtharc

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Andy (@thegrowtharc) is a relationship educator who’s goal is to help people break out of societally constricting and damaging relationship behaviors! Andy’s goal is to turn @thegrowtharc into an intentional community created space for growth in relationships with help from many!

December 2nd

@nataliefinking

HappyPolydays - Polyamorous Holidays - Polyamory and Art by Natalie Finking

My name is Natalie, I’m 24 years old and from southern Germany. I live in a polyamorous relationship with my two male partners for 4 years, and we are super happy together. We are fighting against prejudices about polyamory as strong as we can and are proud allies to our monogamous friends and the LGBTQIA+ Community. We are using the cold December days to re-organize and renovate our small apartment because love (and family planning) need space. Next year will be a big adventure and the next step into adulthood. 

December 3rd

@polypages

Polypages - #HappyPolidays - The academic non-monogamous podcast

Poly Pages is the only online book club dedicated exclusively to texts about polyamory and non-monogamy. Award nominated this year, Poly Pages just launched their brand new online platform Polypages.org to better advocate for polyamorous representation in literature and academic research. The Poly Pages Podcast features genuine polyamorous hosts reading the texts which have shaped our community and culture (available on all good podcast platforms now). A special shout out to the solo-poly pansexual femme founder and host, @claireltravers, who is featured on their calendar entry today.

December 4th

@blacknkinky

Blacknkinky - #HappyPolidays! Polyamorous Kinky podcast

Bomber and Belle are a Black married professional couple that has embraced Ethical Non-monogamy. They use their podcast, The Black N Kinky Lifestyle, to
1) normalize ethical non-monogamy and other relationship practices that fall outside traditional monogamy for communities of color
2) use a combination of humor and candid reflections to shed light on modern romance, sexuality and relationships
3) provide a Black perspective on the role that race plays in sex positive spaces.

PolyamorousAwareness - #HappyPolidays - polyamorous memes and educaational stuff

My name’s Manu and it is my mission to connect with like-minded people online (and offline at some point), discuss topics, exchange knowledge and experience and just overall enjoy the vibe of being part of a community. Loving openly and freely under the umbrella of ethical non-monogamy with focus on polyamory is my way to go. Bringing awareness to and educating about different ways of having relationships is crucial to me, so that everybody finds what suits them best and isn’t stuck with an unfulfilling default setting. I’d love to connect with you, beautiful soul!

December 6th

@polypirates

Polypirates - #HappyPolidays  - memes about polyamory

We came here to normalize polyamory in everyday life through memes and to drink as much rum as we can, and we’re all out of rum. Check out polypirat.es for more content and to join our wholesome Discord server!

December 7th

@lavitaloca34

Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers - #HappyPolidays - personal coach non-monogamy polyamorous educator

Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers is a non-monogamy coach, speaker, and educator. Creator of “Today’s Polyamory Reminder”, she is also the subject of the groundbreaking polyamorous documentary “Poly-Love”. Her approach is both frank yet empathetic and she is appreciated for her vulnerable openness about her own challenges in non-monogamy and helping others to grow through the sharing of her experiences.

December 8th

@polyinplace

Polyinplace-HappyPolidays-stories about polyamoroy and ethical non-monogarmy

@polyinplace is a platform for sharing stories about polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. By sharing our own stories, struggles, and victories, we aim to give voices to others like us. By asking others to share their stories, we hope that they will join our exploration of relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. 

December 9th

@acolornamedlove

A color named love #HappyPolidays childrenbook LGBTQIA+ polyamorous parents

Hi, we are M.Ellery and Clara Reschke, the author and illustrator of “A Color Named Love” – the 1st children’s book with polyamorous parents represented! We did this book as we believe every child has the right to see themselves and their families in the pages of a book, creating empathy and a sense of belonging!  Our mission is to offer to the world a tool that would put in words what we, and kids already feel in our hearts! If you would like to know more about the book, check it out on our Kickstarter page.

December 10th

@portahfamily

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Poly~Family (Houston)
Living our truth!
Featured on: MaddHatta show | Fox26 Factor uncensored
Influencers | Poly-Love
Creators of polyamorous resource bundles and relationship cards
More info at
www.theportahfamily.com

December 11th

@morethan2love

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

We our experiencing our second holiday seasons together & excited for all the years still to come! As we look ahead we are excited for so many firsts. Our first House, first Wedding, first Child and so much more. Each of these moments brining more love to our lives in our own unique ways. We hope to continue to share our journey always showing how valid our family is no matter the dynamic
#loveislove

December 12th

@polyphiliablog

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Poly Philia is a sex-positive personal blog and meme page about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and personal growth in open relationships. I am a bisexual woman who has been actively practicing non-monogamy since 2016. Find me @polyphiliablog on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and WordPress!

December 13th

@baesinbed

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Baes in Bed consist of Saniyyah @HeauxontheGeaux & Anthony @iamcontroversy, together they created Baes in Bed. Baes in Bed is our platform to be an unapologetically BLACK + QUEER Polyam couple who discuss all things love, sex, and non-traditional relationships.”

December 14th

@p0lybat

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hi, I am the creator of polybat! I live in austria and identify as polyamorous since a few years. My aim is not particularly to educate, but to share little storys about the life and times of a polyamorous bat and its friends.

December 15th

@triadarg

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

We are a triad from Argentina dating since 2017. The mission of our account is to show the world that polyamory is much more than sex. That is possible to have a long, healthy and loving relationship with more than one person.

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

My name is Michelle and I created Polyamorous While Asian to be an out and proud polyam Asian and to amplify and promote the voices of other POC, who are significantly underrepresented in non-monogamous communities. My work attempts to help normalize non-monogamy and educate from an intersectional lens.

December 17th

@poly_inclusion

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hey there, I’m Alana the page creator/owner of Poly Inclusion! I started Poly Inclusion 3/2/19 to help my boyfriend (now fiancé) Terry get more comfortable and familiar with the ENM/Poly community. Now that we’ve reached a point where he feels safe and comfortable in a Non-monogamous relationship I decided to keep running the page in an effort to provide the community with a resource that proves education + pride but in a way that’s PG-13. That way even kids who are curious about our community, either for themselves or to become an ally, without being overexposed to extremely sexual content and adult situations. I hope to continue Poly Inclusion thanks to my wonderful long-time admins Miso, Zanthia and Mark, we hope to continue our mission of education and pride and reach as many wonderful people as we can. Maybe even help a few realize they are non-monogamous and not alone!

December 18th

@polyamcomix

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Polyamcomix is the artist’s life, thoughts, opinions, feelings, struggles and questions about polyamory presented in comics. The goal is to contribute to the representation of ethical nonmonogamy in an entertaining way but also brighten up everyone a little, because it’s easy to lose the humor sometimes.

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Our polyamorous family has the mission to make the world more tolerant for all kinds of relationships and love. We want to be a good example to our son and show him that he can be and love whoever he wants. Therefore, we are trying to change the world by raising awareness for the LGBTQIA+ community with focus on our polyamorous love. You can support us by subscribing to our channels and by purchases through our shop.

December 20th

@atwr_podcast

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

We are Sunflower, Iris, Foxglove, and Sage. Together, we are the Quaple: a closed polyamorous unit of four. Recently, we launched our podcast about modern love, life, and everything in between: And They Were Roommates. We are four 20-somethings who have been through a lot and we think our (potentially dubious) advice could be helpful for anyone! 

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

I post memes and art that help share my queer and polyamorous experiences. I try my best to show the wholesome side of Polyam life while also showcasing the wonderful diversity within the ENM community. Mostly I just try to make folks smile/laugh and create a little space online where people feel seen and understood.

December 22nd

@polyam.gal

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hello my name is Maggie! I am 21 years old and have been practicing polyam for 2+ years now. I’m bisexual/queer, Canadian and besides Polyamory I’m passionate about sharing info on inclusive sex Ed, feminism, and self care!!

December 23rd

@coach_emilyy

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hello, babes, I’m Emily, an openly polyam cis-female with two partners! My page is inclusive and talks about both the shame surrounding coming out as polyamorous, and what that can mean to your current, past, or future relationships; as well as accepting one’s pleasure. I stay open in speech, mannerisms, experiences, etc. so that you have permission to do the same.

December 24th

@teamtriadtribe

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hi we’re Mikey, Eli & Alida a triad living and raising a family in the Pacific Northwest. We share our regular life and special kind of love in hopes to help normalize different types of relationships.

December 25th

@gaythrouple

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

We are 3 guys in a relationship, building an empire, a family, and consistently expanding our friends and network. We love traveling, partying, and friends and family. We are entrepreneurs, who work 24/7, and we love it!

December 26th

@polyamorousblackgirl

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

polyamorous black girl*
social worker | filmmaker | internet kid | trauma informed | low waste | dreamer. ⁣⁣⁣
toronto, canada⁣⁣⁣⁣
 polyamorousblackgirl@gmail.com⁣
msha.ke/polyamorousblackgirl

December 27th

@die_maetzchen

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

We are Marcel (33) Marco (31) and Michel (22). We are a polyamorous family from Graz in Austria and we fight for more visibility, understanding and for the normalization of polyamory in our society.

December 28th

@polyamfam

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Polyamory Memes
#polyamory and #nonmonogamy posts
Feel free to repost with tag/credit!
DMs open, but I’m really slow to respond
Merch to support the page
polyamfam.com

December 29th

@kinkypolyamory

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Hi! I go by the name Tiny and when I created @kinkypolyamory, my intentions were to share my raw polyamorous kinky lifestyle in hopes of encouraging others to educate themselves on things that are normalized as taboo. I am extremely interactive with my followers and constantly hear their personal stories in my direct messages. I had NO idea how many people I’d be influencing to live openly and shamelessly. It has been a pleasure being a part of this community and creating a safe space to learn and ask for guidance when it’s needed.

December 30th

@marjanilane

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Marjani Lane is a polyamorous educational content creator with a focus on representation of Black people.  The mission of Marjani Lane is to ensure polyamorous education and voices are not a vacuum and Black experiences are amplified.

December 31st

@thepolyguys

#HappyPolyday Polyamorous Holydays helping against societal structures growtharc

Poly Guys 1 & 2
Poly Guy 1 & 2 here facing the world head on! Hoping to share some insights on the pleasures & pitfalls of a polyamorous life.
thepolyguys.com

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