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Polyamorie: Sind polyamore Menschen nicht eifersüchtig?

Polyamorie: Sind polyamore Menschen nicht eifersüchtig?

von Real Polylife Official | Nov 1, 2020

Sind Menschen in Polyamorie nicht eifersüchtig? Wir nutzen Werkzeuge wie Grenzen, Kommunikation und Vertrauen.

Willkommen zu unseren neuen Webseite über Polyamorie

Willkommen zu unseren neuen Webseite über Polyamorie

von Real Polylife Official | Aug 29, 2020

Hallo, wir sind Fabian, Nicole und Christian. Zusammen mit unserem kleinen, wunderschönen Baby formen wir eine Familie aus 4 Personen.

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And then when you finally stated your needs, your

And then when you finally stated your needs, your partners can decide if they want to help you meet your needs or not. This way you can start a conversation. If your partner consistently ignores your needs, you at least know that they actively decided against them. Alternatively your partners have the possibility to explain why they can't meet your needs. " I would love to help you with that, but I desperately need to do this..." Thats how your communication is growing.

#polyamory #polyfamily #triad #throuple #rainbowfamily #queerfamily #queerlove #familyiscolorful #loveisloveislove #outing #comingout #comingoutstories #nonmonogamy #familyvlog #familystories
#healthyrelationship #relationships #communication

This year carneval in Cologne was so nice again. U

This year carneval in Cologne was so nice again. Unfortunatelly the big procession was too crowded but we went too the playground with the kids, so it was cool for our son. Fortunatelly the next day we went to a smaller carneval procession in another part of the town. There we could see everything and we even were in the first row! Then we did some gardening work (actually one of our best friends). Now we are planning to plant some apple trees and other food plants. But lets see how we make it!

#polyamory #polyfamily #triad #throuple #rainbowfamily #queerfamily #queerlove #familyiscolorful #loveisloveislove #outing #comingout #comingoutstories #nonmonogamy #familyvlog #familystories

Long time ago a TV interview kept asking us those

Long time ago a TV interview kept asking us those questions. We first were kind of irritated. Then we realized that people just cannot grab the idea because we humans do stereotyped thinking. We need it to understand and to organize the complexity of our world. But maybe one day we will just create the stereotype „polyamorous“ so that people won’t try to fit us into monogamous structures.

#polyamory #polyamorous #polyfamily #triad #throuple #stereotypes #queerlove #rainbowfamily #loceisloveislove #nonnonogamy

enjoy every moment of your life! #polyamory #tria

enjoy every moment of your life!

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Outing and rejection, part 2 As described last tim

Outing and rejection, part 2
As described last time, I was in my 5th month of pregnancy when we came out in front of our parents. One reason why it wasn't easy for the grandparents-to-be to react harmfully. We were totally surprised by the reactions of our parents. Christian's parents reacted as if he told them that he would go shopping: as if it was the most natural thing on earth. Fabi's mom had many questions. My dad first teased us a bit but ended up making jokes about his new son-in-law. All of our parents mentioned they would need some time. Time to get used to the new situation and the new thoughts. They all had many worries with them: "What if someone gets hurt?" "What if you all argue?" "What if someone gets jealous?" - We were prepared for those kinds of questions and answered quickly: "What if monogamous relationships get a divorce and someone gets hurt?" All of our parents were also a bit scared of what others might think. My mom said honestly to me: "I always felt so tolerant, until it was my own child." Then you don't know how to deal with the situation," I said, "that I understand." We never expected our parents to think of everything "nice and cool" right away. We even needed time to accept ourselves as we are. Why should we expect more from our parents than from ourselves? We said: "We give you time." Take all the time you need, as long as our kids don't notice. Your grandchildren should not get the feeling that their family is not right. This rule was okay for everyone. To be continued.

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Please be honest and admit you did wrong instead o

Please be honest and admit you did wrong instead of trying to explain your wrong with polyamory. It’s not making it better. If you truly think you are polyamorous we advice you to build up your trustbase before trying to make polyamory happen. Otherwise your partner will think of polyamory badly because they always will have lying and cheating in mind when you talk about it. And this is not what polyamory is about.

Adding: it’s not impossible to have perfectly working relationships after cheating. And even polyamory can work out when everybody takes the chance to be honest about wishes and desires. Just maybe don’t put it in one sentence.

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'But I have to... I can't... I must not...' …

'But I have to... I can't... I must not...'

… in contrary to all prejudices, polyamory is not about 'putting up with everything' in the partnership or being able to do whatever you want. Anyone who claims that we are all about freedom at any price is simply not living polyamorous, but toxic. Unfortunately, toxic behavior is often justified under the guise of polyamory. Everything should be done with consent, this requires communication and individual solutions 🥰

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Our last week. And how was yours? #polyamory #pol

Our last week. And how was yours?

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So glad to have more than one partner for backrubs

So glad to have more than one partner for backrubs 😂🤣🤣

#polyamory #fun #trending #polyfamily #triad #throuple #loveislove #rainbowfamily #queerfamily #backrub #funny #enm #relationship #relationshipgoals

Outing and rejection We asked our followers about

Outing and rejection
We asked our followers about topics you like to hear more about. The topic which was mentioned most last time was outing and rejections. How do we come out in front of friends and family? How did we do it? How do we face rejection?
The most important thing first: You have to feel it. When you don’t feel ready to come out, then you don’t have to do it. You probably will feel it when you start feeling the burden along with it (because you need to hide, lie, and deny your partners). For us it was always a suffering when we wanted to visit our parents. Knowing that you always have to think of new lies. We are really honest people and it was against our nature. Still we didnt want to stress our parents until it became a 100% serious. But a 100% serious it became when we started to plan our family as a triad. But still it was a lot of strength and time that we needed. So much time that I had to get pregnant first (it took us a long while) and that I had to be in the 5th month of my pregnancy. My former psychologist gave me some advice how to do the outing. First we were suppose to imagine how the conversation would be and what could happen in the worst case. Also she gave us the advice to set a deadline. I hardly was talking to my psychologist about my polyamory, because I never had an issue with my relationship. But our coming out was a whole new level for me. We all then visualized how we would talk to our parents and how they could react. Christian and Fabian wanted to talk to their parents alone, so that they understand that that it was their own decision (and that they havent been influenced by me). I wanted all 3 of us to sit down with my parents. Of course we were afraid of rejection, anger and disappointments. But none of our parents reacted like in our worst case scenario. - to be continued.
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Sometimes we just need a happy reel! Happy valenti

Sometimes we just need a happy reel!
Happy valentines to you all!

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